Agree fully, Krunnie, minus this one part.
As someone who was apart of the first batch of “New Members” (back then, Basic Users) I can confirm that it was about pulling yourself up by your boot straps to get through. Not everyone came through the New Member program, and if I had to guess, there’s still a majority of “Members” who weren’t even a “New Member.” So, it’s definitely tough to motivate some of the people at the top to help those at the bottom, when the bottom is more like a basement was built, rather than simply pushing everybody above up a little higher. Honestly, New Members have it big easy compared to back then. Over time the DevForum is more and more open to them. We had the tiniest slice of pie back in the day, and I’m grateful I was apart of some of the decisions made to change that. (I had PM’ed a staff member talking about the New Member program, about the pros & cons, and it helped them understand how I, a New Member, felt, as well as giving me some more insight about why the program is what it is.) And I can remember that some of the changes I proposed, did take shape over time.
However, I agree that DMs go a long way. Here’s a slice of my DMs. Not the most recent, but also not too far back. You can see, on occasion I use DMs for private function, but it’s really not by much. Most of my DMs are the (what feels automated by isn’t automated) staff replying back to something you reported for being low quality or rule breaking, but on occasion I do message folks that I see in that gray area. They seem so close to being on the right path, but yet still just slightly off it. So, I’ll message them, and walk them through, in my opinion, what the better way to pursue is.
Now, one of these cases, the user thanked me for the help and went on their way.
The other one, the user was distraught with me, and felt I was using my forum status to undermine them. (Kinda confusing tbh, but okay) After a few messages of talking them down however, they understood what I meant. Sometimes, you have to do that. You have to explain it simple & in a calm sort of way that can be seen as help, and not “I’m better than you, get on my level.”
As far as the OP though, I disagree completely. Admittedly it can be tough in the New Member-ey sections of the forum, because there’s not really much to limit who those people are. You just get a whole slice of Roblox in that, and there’s people in there who aren’t focused much on Development, they want Socializing. People do still see the DevForum as a competition, and a piece of status. (Heck, I know people who flaunt New Member like they just won the Super Bowl.) But, it really isn’t, and if you see those people, don’t really bother with them. They typically are pretty set in that mindset, and tell them they’re wrong, they’ll freak out.
Just keep doing you. Enjoy what you do, for yourself. Don’t worry yourself in the status in the eyes of others.